Last Sunday, we concluded a sermon series on evangelism. I do pray this will be a turning point in our church becoming more evangelistic, and seeing more people saved. May this not be the end, but rather the beginning of a new culture of evangelism in our lives and in the church.
When preaching on “The Conversation of an Evangelist” a few weeks ago, I shared several ways to have more fruitful, gospel-centered conversations, as Philip did with the Ethiopian eunuch.
During that message, I shared several tips for asking good questions, and promised I would send it out to everyone. As you can see, one of the keys to evangelism is becoming a better listener. Here’s the list for any blog readers interested…
NINE TIPS FOR ASKING GOOD QUESTIONS
By Will Metzger, Tell the Truth
1. Take every possible chance to ask a searching question, then keep quiet.
2. One thoughtful question is worth a dozen interrogative ones. The prod-and-pry approach makes people clam up.
3. Questions that come close to people’s true interests get the best answers, provided we are interested.
4. Be prepared to wait. Sometimes a long silence can be more rewarding than another question.
5. In every case, the quality of an answer depends on the quality of attention given by the questioner.
6. Questions must spring from honest inquiry, not from attempts at flattery or efforts to manipulate people’s thinking.
7. Questions that deal with people’s feelings are more provocative than those that deal with facts. Listen for and encourage all expressions of feeling.
8. What is our motive in asking questions? Are we just leading people on in order to argue or to trap them, or do we really care for them?
9. Ask questions to help people tell their story, not just about what interests you or things you want clarified.
“Only a listening, loving heart can remove the mask we all wear”
Question: What kind of questions help you have gospel conversations with unbelievers?
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