“Be imitators of me, as I am of Christ” (1 Corinthians 11:1)
The past couple years, our family has been planning a trip to Medieval Times. Finally, last Sunday night, that dream became a reality. After church, we drove to Buena Park for the 5 pm show. The kids had a blast. The entertainment was great, food was surprisingly good with generous portions, and most importantly, we had a great time together as family.
The next afternoon, I noticed the kids were out in the front yard re-enacting the jousting they had seen the night before. Bicycle helmets served as armor. Sticks were now swords. Velcro mitts were shields. And jump ropes were now maces.
As I watched the kids slash and dodge, yell and laugh, I was reminded how impressionable children are, and of the power of example.
It’s a good reminder to us parents that our kids are always watching. It’s a warning to be careful what forms of media and hero figures we put in front of them. It’s also a reminder that our personal lives and conduct may be our most important instruction of all.
Our children learn to pray by listening to us pray (and getting their own turns to pray). They learn how to trust God by watching us trust God (and building their own trust muscles). They learn how to work by watching us work (and pitching in with a few chores around the house). Biblical instruction is important, and godly discipline is an important tool in our toolbox. But never underestimate the power of example.
Parents, you are setting an example every day for your kids. They will likely remember more of what they saw than what they heard. The best form of instruction is where biblical teaching is joined together with modeling. Imitation is powerful because we see gospel truths fleshed out.
If we wish to raise modern day knights and virtuous princesses, we should remember the power of example right in our own castles called home.